“Two ways exist to guide human activity. One is to force a person to act against his wishes; the other is to guide a person’s wishes, to persuade him with reasoning. One is the used by ignorant people, and it leads complete disappointment. The other is supported by experience, and (more…)
Moja ya faida ya uandishi na ualimu ni moja, unaweza kufanya kwa ajili ya wengine, lakini wewe mwenyewe ukanufaika sana na kile unachowafanyia wengine. Unaandika kitu kwa ajili ya watu wengine, lakini katika uandishi wako, unapata njia za kukabiliana na hali fulani kwenye maisha yako mwenyewe. Au unajiandaa kwa ajili (more…)
“You should not be upset by the sight of wisdom being criticized. Wisdom would not be real wisdom if it did not reveal the stupidity of a bad life, and people would not be people if they endured this revelation without criticism.” – Leo Tolstoy “Dogs bark at what they (more…)
Huwezi kuanza na kuimaliza siku yako nzima bila ya mtu kukukwaza kwa namna moja au nyingine, labda kama hutakutana au kuwasiliana na mtu kwenye siku yako. Watu kukuangusha au kukukwamisha ni hali ya kawaida kwenye kila siku ya maisha yako. Mtu atakuahidi kitu na hatatekeleza, mwingine atachelewa tofauti na matarajio (more…)
“Do not be interested in the quantity of people who respect and admire you, but in their quality. If bad people dislike you, so much the better.” —Lucius Annaeus Seneca Kwenye maisha yako, usisumbuke na wingi wa watu wanaokukubali, wingi wa marafiki au wingi wa wateja. Badala yake kazana kupata (more…)
Moja ya madhara hasi ya mitandao ya kijamii, ni kufanya kila mtu afikiria kufikia watu wengi. Kwa kuwa mitandao hii inatupa nafasi ya kuwa na marafiki wasio na kikomo dunia nzima, hata soko letu nalo pia limebadilika. Tunasukumwa kumfikia kila mtu, na hapo ndipo tunapoharibu. Kwa chochote unachofanya, unapolenga kumfikia (more…)
“What you do, you possess. You must believe that eternal goodness exists that is within you, and that it grows and develops as long as you live.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson Unakuwa kile unachofanya, na siyo unachotamani kuwa. Ukifanya mema unakuwa mwema, ukifanya mabaya unakuwa mbaya. Huwezi kuwalazimisha watu wakuone unavyotaka (more…)
Watu wamekuwa wanajipa majukumu ambayo siyo tu yako nje ya uwezo wao, bali pia yanawapoteza. Yanawapoteza kwa sababu nguvu wanazotumia kuhangaika na majukumu hayo, ni nguvu ambazo hawawezi kuzitumia kwenye yale muhimu kwao, hivyo zinapotea na hawapati matokeo yoyote mazuri. Dhana kwamba unataka kuibadili dunia ni moja ya majukumu ambayo (more…)
“A most dangerous temptation is the temptation to pre pare to live, instead of living. The future does not belong to you. Therefore, remember to live the best way you know now. The only perfection necessary is perfection in love, which can be reached only in the present. It’s why (more…)
Hakuna kitu chenye thamani kwenye maisha ambacho hakihitaji kazi katika kukijenga na kukilinda. Huwa tunafikiria kazi na biashara tunazofanya ndiyo zinahitaji kuweka kazi na juhudi, huku vitu vingine tukitegemea vitokee vyenyewe, bila sisi kuweka kazi. Hapo ndipo wengi wanapokwama, kwa kutokuweka kazi kwenye maeneo mengine ya maisha yao, yanaanguka na (more…)