“There’s only one very good life and that’s the life you know you want and you make it yourself.” — Diana Vreeland Ndani kabisa ya moyo wako, unajua ni maisha ya aina gani unayoyataka. Unajua kabisa maisha mazuri kwako yakoje, Unajua nini unapenda kufanya na wapi unataka kufika. Umekuwa unajua (more…)
Ipo njia rahisi na ya uhakika ya kushinda mabishano ya aina yoyote ile. Njia hiyo ni kuepuka kuingia kwenye mabishano ya aina yoyote ile. Unaweza kuona ni hoja isiyo na msingi lakini wacha nikueleze kwa kina zaidi ili uweze kuelewa na uokoe muda wako. Chanzo kikuu cha mabishano ambayo watu (more…)
“To punish others is like putting more wood in the fire. Every crime already has punishment in itself, and it is more cruel and more just than the punishment created by people.” – Leo Tolstoy Kwenye maisha kuna watu huwa wanafanya mambo mbalimbali ambayo yanatukwaza au kutuumiza. Hali hiyo inapotokea, (more…)
Hivi ni vitu viwili unavyopaswa kuvifuata, unavyopaswa kujifunza na pale unapohitaji maoni au mrejesho, basi angalia kwenye vitu hivyo viwili. Asili ina sheria zake ambazo huwa hazibadiliki kulingana na eneo au hali. Sheria za asili ni za kudumu. Ukizifuata utanufaika nazo, ukizivunja utaadhibiwa. Asili haijali wala haina huruma, inajua njia (more…)
“What we perceive as limitations have the potential to become strengths greater than what we had when we were ‘normal’ or unbroken…when something breaks, something greater often emerges from the cracks.” — Nnedi Okorafor Kile unachoona kama kikwazo kwako kufika kula unakotaka kufika, ndiyo njia unayopaswa kuitumia kufika unakotaka. Ule (more…)
Tunaweza kusema maendeleo ya binadamu yamekuwa yanazaliwa kutokana na uchoshi (boredom). Pale ambapo mtu anakuwa kwenye hali ya kuboreka, akiwa hana cha kufanya ndipo akili yake inakwenda hatua ya ziada na kumwonesha njia za kukabiliana na chochote anachopitia. Na uchoshi huo ni ule ambapo mtu anakuwa mpweke, mawazo yake yanakuwa (more…)
Kila mmoja wetu ana utofauti na upekee ndani yake, Lakini ni wachache sana ambao wanaweza kubaki na utofauti waliozaliwa nao. Wengi hupoteza upekee wao na kujikuta wakiendesha maisha ya kawaida ambayo hayawatofautishi na wengine. Kitu ambacho kinachangia kuwazuia wasifanikiwe. Kuna sumu kubwa mbili ambazo zimekuwa zinaua upekee na utofauti ulio (more…)
Watu wengi hawaridhiki na pale walipo sasa, Iwe ni kiasi cha kipato wanachotengeneza, kazi au biashara wanayofanya au eneo wanaloishi. Wengi tuna ndoto kubwa zaidi ya pale tulipo sasa. Lakini ukweli ni kwamba, huwezi kufika kokote unakotaka kufika bila kuanzia hapo ulipo sasa. Kazi kubwa unayotaka kufikia, inaanzia kwenye kazi (more…)
“Concentrate on what’s in front of you like a Roman. Do it like it’s the last and most important thing in your life.” – Marcus Aurelius Wengi huanza siku zao wakiwa na mipango mbalimbali, Wanamaliza siku hizo wakiwa wamechoka kweli kweli, Lakini wakiangalia walichofanya, hawaoni. Wamesumbuka siku nzima na kuchoka, (more…)
Kila mtu huwa ana dalili fulani za hofu, pale anapokuwa na hofu, mwili wake huwa unamsukuma kufanya kitu fulani, hata kama hajui. Kuna ambao hung’ata kucha, kuna ambao mikono hutetemeka na wengine kutokwa jasho, hata kama hakuna joto. Ipo dalili ya kiakili ya hofu, ambayo huwa inawapata walio wengi, lakini (more…)