“In order to change the nature of things, either within yourself or in others, one should change, not the events, but those thoughts which created those events.” – Leo Tolstoy Kama unataka kubadili kitu chochote kwenye maisha yako, anza kwa kubadili fikra ulizonazo juu ya kitu hicho. Kwa sababu fikra (more…)
Kama umeshangazwa na chochote kilichotokea kwenye maisha yako, kwa kujiambia kwamba hukutegemea kitokee, basi jua tatizo ni lako, hujafanya kazi yako sawasawa, hujawa na maandalizi ya kutosha. Kila kitu kinaweza kutokea wakati wowote ule, hivyo kutegemea kisitokee haikizuii kitu kutokea. Unapaswa kuifanya kazi yako sawasawa, kwa kujiandaa kwa matokeo yoyote (more…)
“Our thoughts, depending on whether they are good or bad, can bring us either to paradise or to hell; this happens, neither in heaven nor under the earth, but here, in this life.” —LUCY MALORY Kuiona siku hii nyingine nzuri ni nafasi bora na ya kipekee sana kwetu. Tuna fursa (more…)
Kuna watu ambao wanajaribu kufanya mambo mabaya kwako na unaweza kuwaona ni watu wabaya na wakatili sana. Lakini watu hao unapaswa kuwaonea huruma kuliko unavyowaona wabaya. Mtu yeyote anayetaka kukuumiza, jua ya kwamba na yeye anaumizwa. Mtu yeyote anayetaka kukutesa, jua kwamba pale alipo naye anateseka. Mtu ambaye anataka kuyavuruga (more…)
“We are not free in this world, subdued by our passions and by the emotions of other people to the degree that we forget the requirements of our intellects. If we really want to become free, we can be so only through our intellect.” – Leo Tolstoy Ni nafasi nyingine (more…)
“Love is real only when a person can sacrifice himself for another person. Only when a person forgets himself for the sake of another, and lives for another creature, only this kind of love can be called true love, and only in this love do we see the blessing and (more…)
Hakuna mtu yeyote anayeweza kufanya chochote kwako mpaka wewe utakapompa ruhusa ya kufanya hivyo. Hakuna anayeweza kukuumiza wewe, mpaka wewe umpe ruhusa kwa kuchagua kuumia. Mtu anaweza kufanya atakacho, kwa lengo la kukuumiza, lakini hawezi kukuumiza kama wewe hujampa ruhusa. Unapokubali kuumia, unakuwa umempa mtu ruhusa ya kukuumiza. Hata wale (more…)
“A person becomes happy to the same extent to which he or she gives happiness to other people.” —JEREMY BENTHAM Ni siku nyingine mpya kwetu, Tumepata nafasi bora na ya kipekee sana kwetu kwenda kuweka juhudi kubwa ili kupata matokeo bora sana. Tuweke vipaumbele sahihi leo na kuvifanyia kazi. Utakuwa (more…)
“When you have doubts about what to do, just imagine that you might die at the end of that same day, and then all your doubts will disappear, and you will see clearly what your conscience tells you, and what is your true personal wish.” – Leo Tolstoy Unapokuwa na (more…)
Kuna aina za mashindano ambapo kushinda ni kushindwa. Yaani unashindana au kubishana na wewe na kufikia mwisho wewe unaibuka mshindi, lakini kwa uhalisia unakuwa umepoteza. Yule unayekuwa umemshinda, inakuwa ni kwa hoja, lakini bado anaamini alichokuwa anaamini, na ushindi wako unamfanya azidi kutofautiana na wewe. Japokuwa hatakuwa na hoja za (more…)