Ukipatwa na hasira beba jembe na uende ukalime, hii ni moja ya kauli zilizozoeleka, lakini yenye maana kubwa sana, japo wengi huwa hawaioni na kuitumia. Sisi binadamu ni viumbe wa kihisia ambapo sehemu kubwa ya maisha yetu inaendeshwa na hisia tunazokuwa nazo. Hisia hizi zinaweza kuwa chanya au hasi na (more…)
“It seems that it is impossible to live without discovering the purpose of your life. And the first thing which a person should do is to understand the meaning of life. But the majority of people who consider themselves to be educated are proud that they have reached such a (more…)
Utakuwa na maisha rahisi kama utaacha kupokea ushauri ambao watu wengi wanakupa, hata kabla hujawaomba. Na utakuwa na maisha tulivu kama utaacha kushauri kila mtu, hata kama hajakuomba ushauri. Hii ni kwa sababu ni rahisi sana kutoa ushauri kwa wengine, lakini kufanyia kazi ushauri huo huo unaowapa wengine na vigumu. (more…)
“Progress is not achieved by luck or accident,” Epictetus said, “but by working on yourself daily.” Kupiga hatua kwenye maisha yako hakutokani na bahati wala ajali, Bali ni matokeo ya kazi ambayo unaiweka. Na kazi hiyo siyo ya siku moja halafu unaacha, Bali kazi unayoweka kila siku. Viungo muhimu hapo (more…)
Kipindi cha nyuma, ajira hasa za serikalini zilionekana ndiyo usalama pekee wa kipato ambao mtu anaweza kuwa nao. Mtu alikuwa akipata ajira serikalini, ilikuwa ni uhakika mpaka siku anakufa. Hivyo kupata ajira hizo ilikuwa ni tiketi ya kuwa na uhakika wa kipato mpaka siku unakufa. Lakini kwa sasa hali haipo (more…)
“The true man is revealed in difficult times. So when trouble comes, think of yourself as a wrestler whom God, like a trainer, has paired with a tough young buck. For what purpose? To turn you into Olympic-class material.” – Epictetus Tabia halisi ya mtu huwa inaonekana wakati anapitia magumu (more…)
Kwenye uchumi, ukitaka kitu kipande bei, kiondoe sokoni, upatikanaji wa kitu unapokuwa mdogo, ghafla uhitaji wake unakuwa mkubwa na bei yake inakuwa kubwa pia. Kwenye saikolojia ukitaka watu wapende au kufanya kitu, wakataze wasiwe nacho au wasikifanye. Mwambie mtoto asishike moto na hapo utakuwa umempa kitu cha kufanyia kazi, kuhakikisha (more…)
“When a person sets to work, even if it is the most unqualified, primitive, simple work, the human soul calms down. As soon as a person starts to work, all the demons leave him and cannot approach him. A man becomes a man.” —THOMAS CARLYLE Ipo dawa moja ambayo inaweza (more…)
Kama unataka kufanikiwa, lazima uijue saikolojia ya binadamu. Bila ya ujuzi huu muhimu, utakwama kwenye mambo mengi mno. Moja ya vitu vya kujua kuhusu saikolojia ya binadamu ni wivu. Pale unapofanya jambo jipya na kubwa ambalo wengine hawajawahi kufanya, wataingiwa na wivu. Hivyo watafanya kila namna kuhakikisha huendelei kufanya au (more…)
“A bad mood is often the reason for blaming others; but very often blaming others causes bad feelings in us: the more we blame others, the worse we feel.” – Leo Tolstoy Kuna mambo mbalimbali huwa yanatokea kwenye maisha yetu, mambo ambayo hatukutegemea yatokee. Mambo hayo yanapotokea, huwa tunajisikia vibaya, (more…)