Kama unataka kufanikiwa, lazima uijue saikolojia ya binadamu. Bila ya ujuzi huu muhimu, utakwama kwenye mambo mengi mno. Moja ya vitu vya kujua kuhusu saikolojia ya binadamu ni wivu. Pale unapofanya jambo jipya na kubwa ambalo wengine hawajawahi kufanya, wataingiwa na wivu. Hivyo watafanya kila namna kuhakikisha huendelei kufanya au (more…)
“A bad mood is often the reason for blaming others; but very often blaming others causes bad feelings in us: the more we blame others, the worse we feel.” – Leo Tolstoy Kuna mambo mbalimbali huwa yanatokea kwenye maisha yetu, mambo ambayo hatukutegemea yatokee. Mambo hayo yanapotokea, huwa tunajisikia vibaya, (more…)
Kubishana ni jambo la hovyo sana unaloweza kufanya kwenye maisha yako. Kwa sababu linakupotezea nguvu na muda na hakuna manufaa yoyote unayoyapata kwenye kubishana. Hata kama utashinda ubishani, hutakuwa umemshinda uliyebishana naye, maana atazidi kusimamia upande wake. Hivyo basi, unapaswa kuepuka mabishano kwa namna yoyote ile uwezavyo kwa sababu hayatakunufaisha. (more…)
Seneca said. “Anger always outlasts hurt,” he advised. “Best to take the opposite course. Would anyone think it normal to return a kick to a mule or a bite to a dog?” Je na wewe utamng’ata? Mtu anapokufanyia kitu ambacho hujapendezwa nacho, unakasirika na kupanga kulipa kisasi. Je kama umembeba (more…)
Kipindi cha nyuma, kabla ya kuingia kwenye hizi zama za taarifa, wazo la biashara lilikuwa kitu kizito sana. Wazo la biashara lilikuwa na thamani kubwa sana na watu walifanya mawazo yao ya biashara kuwa siri na kuyalinda kwa gharama kubwa. Lakini tangu tumeingia kwenye zama za taarifa, taarifa zimekuwa zinasambaa (more…)
“Whatever happens, do not lose faith. Nothing bad can happen to you as a human being.” – Leo Tolstoy Haijalishi nini kimetokea kwenye maisha yako, usipoteze imani. Hakuna kitu chochote kibaya kinachoweza kutokea kwako kama binadamu. Hakuna kitu kinachotokea ili kukuumiza au kukukomesha. Kila kinachotokea, kinakuja kwako kwa lengo la; (more…)
Kumekuwa na watu ambao wanaanzia chini kabisa, wanakuwa kiu kubwa ya mafanikio, wanajituma na kujisukuma mno. Jitihada zao zinawafikisha kwenye mafanikio makubwa. Lakini baada ya mafanikio hayo, wanapotea kabisa. Wengi wanaanguka baada ya mafanikio yao ya awali, iwe ni kwenye biashara, kazi, michezo na hata fedha. Moja ya vitu vinavyosababisha (more…)
“Most of our spending is done to forward our efforts to look like others.” —RALPH WALDO EMERSON Sehemu kubwa ya matumizi yanayokusumbua sana siyo yake ya msingi, Bali ni yale matumizi ya anasa, Matumizi ambayo lengo lake ni kufanana na wengine, kukazana usipitwe na wengine. Sisi binadamu huwa hatupendi kuwa (more…)
Kuna rafiki mmoja ambaye ni msikivu na aliye tayari kukusaidia muda wowote. Rafiki huyu hahangaiki kukulazimisha ufanye chochote, bali atakuwa tayari kukusaidia pale unapoenda kwake kupata ushauri. Rafiki huyu hahangaiki kukubadilisha, bali anakuambia kile kilicho sahihi halafu wewe unapaswa kufanya maamuzi yako sahihi. Rafiki huyu ana hekima isiyo na ukomo, (more…)
“Every great thing is done in a quiet, humble, simple way; to plow the land, to build houses, to breed cattle, even to think—you cannot do such things when there are thunder and lightning around you. Great and true things are always simple and humble.” – Leo Tolstoy Kazi zote (more…)